Valentine’s Day is here and we want you to be prepared for the most Lovin’ night of the year. Your man will hopefully do most of the pampering work and will romance you right, but it’s your job as his lady to make sure your heart, body and mind are ready to receive all of this love, and give some back.
We have all been through a journey in our love life that takes us different places. Different people and experiences shape us and shifts us in our love path. Whoever you are going to celebrate this valentine’s Day with, whether they have been in your life for years, months, weeks or days, have ended up at this point on your love path, on this day, as your loved one.
It can be thrilling, exciting, and scary if it’s a new relationship, or a joyful, loving and comfortable experience if it’s an older relationship. Whatever point you are in the relationship, embrace it, celebrate it with an open heart ready to receive and give.
Make sure you are entering the celebration of love with them on this day with a clear mind, focused on them and their love, and dedicated to make that a magical experience and a Lovin’ night for both of you. Free of distractions, thoughts, and your daily life. Yoga, meditation, a spa day, a walk or just an extra long nap can help you re-set your mind and free it up for all the love.
If you can get your hands on the book “The Art of Loving” by Erich Fromm and got some time to read it, educating yourself and learning more about Love is always a good idea.
Lastly, and as always, our Mind is in the gutter…so adding some pre-V-Night daydreaming of some sexual fantasies you could carry on throughout the night will help juice up your creativity as the night falls 😉
Take a nice long bath
V-Day is the perfect day to give yourself the full experience of a spoiling bubble bath. Use mineral salts, body scrubs, candles, and put some chill tunes on. Shave till your blades can no longer fit anymore hair on it, wax and treat your intimate zone… and leather your body with lotions.
Dress up under
We trust your fashion sense to dress to impress, but lingerie is what we are talking about. V-Night is a great opportunity to be more playful, surprising and maybe risky with your “under-fashion”.
Edible underwear, leather, lace, silk, or no underwear at all are all good options as a nice surprise for your Bae. If you are usually frisky, maybe toning it down a notch and wearing boy-shorts would actually be the thing for you. The key is to surprise him with something he wouldn’t expect of you.
Ugh…OK…we’ll talk about it – Odor.
I have a guy friend who shared with me once that a few years back he had a beautiful girlfriend, truly gorgeous, who was sweet, loving, smart, perfect in every way, but, she had an uncontrollable odor coming out from down below during intimate moments. Her pH balance was off, she was aware, and was trying to resolve it. Still, it bothered him so much that he had to let her go. And he was honest enough to share that with her.
It’s such an uncomfortable conversation to have – odor. Something even we at Swipes are trying not to bring up too often, as we want to talk about how beautiful you are, and how natural and fresh you can feel using Swipes. But whether produced by our breath or down below, an odor is a turn off.
We can’t tell you that Swipes will resolve your odor condition, as it might be a medical issue that you need treatment for, but kind of like mints disguise a bad breath, Swipes Lovin’ Wipes can help reduce the odor and freshen up so it’s less noticeable.
Freshen up with Swipes Lovin’ Wipes before and after sex.
Have an awesome & Lovin’ V-Day…and Night!